In the service industry, bartenders and servers often encounter a wide range of customers, from the pleasant and friendly to the downright difficult. These encounters can lead to memorable stories, both positive and negative. In this thought-provoking podcast episode, my co-host Carl and I delve into two stories that highlight the impact of human interactions in the hospitality industry.
From a bartender’s creative approach to dealing with unruly customers to a generous act of kindness that changed a person’s life, these stories shed light on the power of empathy, understanding, and compassion.
The Mad Wall: A Creative Solution
One of the stories we discuss revolves around a bartender’s unique way of dealing with angry and obnoxious customers. The bartender, who goes by the name of Carl, shares his experience of creating a “mad wall” in the bar where he works.
He explains, “We stuck pictures of people who got the most mad for no reason on the wall next to the ‘smile you’re on camera’ sign. When someone acts obnoxious now, we are like, ‘Do you want to be on the wall? It’s not going to look good, bro.'”
Carl’s approach may seem unconventional, but it serves as a lighthearted reminder to customers to treat bartenders and staff with respect. As my co-host and I discuss, this creative solution not only adds an element of humor to the situation but also holds customers accountable for their behavior.
Riley comments, “If you don’t want to be on the Mad wall, don’t act like a dick.” We both agree that this approach is a fair and effective way of dealing with unruly customers.
The Gift of Hearing: A Life-Altering Act of Kindness
In another heartwarming story, we explore the profound impact of a generous act of kindness on a bartender’s life. The story revolves around a bartender who is deaf and had been using outdated analog hearing aids.
One day, a member of the private country club where the bartender worked noticed his hearing aids and struck up a conversation about the latest digital technology. The bartender recalls, “The next day, the GM calls me into his office.
He hands me a check for $5,000 that covers the cost of two new digital hearing aids and the office visit.”
This act of kindness not only provided the bartender with improved hearing aids but also opened up new opportunities for him. He shares, “The new aids were awesome and really helped me in my environment.
Eventually, they also helped me with a new job working in the restaurant POS industry.” The bartender expresses his gratitude, saying, “Every time they came in, I made sure he got a big pour, and their drinks were down before the service started.”
The Implications of Kindness
These stories highlight the profound impact that acts of kindness can have on individuals. In the case of the “mad wall,” it serves as a reminder that our actions have consequences. By holding customers accountable for their behavior, bartenders can create a more respectful and enjoyable environment for everyone.
As Carl points out, “Don’t fuck with people that handle your food and drinks.”
The story of the bartender receiving new hearing aids showcases the power of empathy and understanding. The generous member of the country club recognized the challenges the bartender faced and took it upon himself to make a difference.
This act of kindness not only improved the bartender’s quality of life but also inspired him to pay it forward by providing exceptional service to the member and his family.
The Future Outlook
As we reflect on these stories, it becomes clear that kindness and compassion are essential in the hospitality industry. Bartenders and servers have the opportunity to create meaningful connections with their customers and make a positive impact on their lives.
By fostering an environment of respect and empathy, bartenders can not only enhance the customer experience but also create a sense of community within their establishments.
Looking ahead, it is crucial for both customers and industry professionals to recognize the power of their actions. Small gestures of kindness, such as treating bartenders with respect and generosity, can go a long way in creating a more harmonious and enjoyable environment for all.
As Carl and I conclude the episode, we encourage listeners to support local businesses and show appreciation for the hardworking individuals in the service industry.
In conclusion, the stories shared in this podcast episode serve as a reminder of the power of kindness and empathy. From the creative approach of the “mad wall” to the life-altering act of providing new hearing aids, these stories demonstrate the profound impact that human interactions can have.
As we navigate the hospitality industry, let us remember to treat others with respect, kindness, and understanding. Together, we can create a more compassionate and inclusive world behind the bar.